Lawyer Marketing: Growing Your Relationship from Expert to Trusted Advisor

The essence of lawyer marketing is becoming a trusted advisor. 

It’s 4 AM, and a corporate executive cannot sleep. The issues facing his business are threatening his company and his livelihood. His career is on the line.

He reaches for the telephone and places a call to the one person he knows will help him evaluate the situation rationally and soberly.

Are you on the receiving end of that telephone call?

If the answer is “no” or “not often,” you will probably never make the kind of income you deserve.

Dave Lorenzo Lawyer MarketingAt that moment, the corporate executive (or affluent client, professional, public figure) calls someone he trusts. Someone he knows he can count on. Someone who, regardless of the field of professional accomplishment or vocation, will give him sound guidance even when that means delivering unwelcome news.

Most lawyers never become trusted advisors. They are merely content being experts in a specific area of the law. The expert commands a significant fee premium. An expert takes some risk but, ultimately, can only be evaluated or compared to another expert. An expert also gets to sleep through the night without ever taking the desperate telephone call from a powerful client.

But the expert is only used sparingly. He rarely gets to give guidance and counsel on matters outside of his purview. The expert never has a permanent “seat at the table,” let alone at the right hand of the person in charge.

The Key

Making the transition from expert to a trusted advisor with lawyer marketing is not complicated, but it is risky. That’s why few lawyers do it.  

The risk lies in emotionally engaging people in a place where emotions are seldom spoken of and never on display. The boardroom.

Experts can get into the boardroom, but they seldom have what it takes to stay there.

How Do You Make the Transition?

Let’s say you are brought in to advise a board of directors on a merger. This is a reasonably straightforward process. Typically you deliver your commentary and findings to the chief counsel of the company. You are thanked. Paid well. Dismissed.


This happens because you did not take the next step.  

If you went the extra mile and evaluated the merger and its implications on the business landscape 5, 10, and 15 years down the road, and you provided strategies for handling the legal pitfalls you know would arise at each interval, you would have a seat at the table.

Again, most attorneys won’t do this with their lawyer marketing. It involves risk. The Chief counsel of the company won’t do this because of the risk it involves. 

That’s why YOU will need to give the presentation to the board of directors.  

Once You Are in the Room

When the time comes to report your findings, you stress their implications on the company’s leadership. In presenting the information you highlight the pain each of those executives will feel if a specific action is not taken. Your assertions are supported by facts and case studies (stories) of huge colossal errors made by not following the guidance you have set forth.

You challenge the most influential people in this company to take action or face disaster.

Then you sit down and wait.

Either you will be a hero, or you will be fired.

Now it is slightly more complicated than that. There is significant relationship development work that precedes this dramatic moment. 

But the question I have for you is:  

Do you have the guts to lay it all on the line, every day, just like this?

Because if you don’t; If you just want to analyze and report; You can be a successful lawyer.

But you can never be a trusted advisor.  

If you’re interested in discovering the secrets of becoming a trusted advisor, apply for my Private Client Experience. This is an exclusive coaching program designed to help you improve your business and grow your law firm.